People always say... in a relationship ... if you want it to last it shouldn't be about the sex because sex will fade.
So if this is the case and great sex will inevitably be ended due to some sort of dysfunction, why is it such a big sweat? Women feel like they can't sleep around without the "number" haunting/lingering, and revisiting old relationships are grounds for heartbreak. All these underlying rules that put restraints on sexual promiscuity. But our clock is TICKING!!!!
I also always feel horrible because everyone compares even if they're vastly opposite types of sex.
I know, beacuse I rate... I think everyone has a rank. But in this harsh hierarchy there is a form of selfishness. It can be explained/summed up by sleeping with an ex. Sure he was indecisive or uncommitted but the sex is good... and lets face it, its a free-bee the sex is comfortable/amazing. That's a given, plus your "number" (sex partners) STAYS THE SAME. But is this act of sexual relief self liberating or self destructive?
Can you actually sleep with an ex and be completely unattached?
hmm...
thoughts?
no i don't think so. i think sex carries with it an inherent attachment. though some people are more resistant to it than others.
ReplyDeleteAh such a good thought JOrdyn. I am not really sure at my stand for this. But such great points!
ReplyDeleteActually, I don't think you can sleep with an ex and be completely unattached, There will always be some feelings and memories. Unless you picture your ex as just a body. But there is so much passion is sex, there is always attachment!